Posts Tagged ‘relationships’:

Posted May 1st, 2010 by justBcoz in Kids
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Son#2: So, do you think I’ll have girls or boys? Me: Well, you could have either I reckon – my mom had 3 girls and I had 2 boys and Dad is one of 3 boys. Son#2: Hmmm. I hope I have boys. Me: Why’s that? Son#2: I dunno, I just think it’ll be easier. [...]

Posted August 19th, 2009 by justBcoz in Personal
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We sat alone in the bedroom on that fated early evening four years ago. It was the day after I’d seen the message come through on his cellphone: “I want to be with you.” That was the day that everything fell into place for me, the day the lights came on. He’d been talking about [...]

Posted April 16th, 2009 by justBcoz in Friends and Family, Kids, Personal
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Just one more sleep until my “baby” turns 18 …OMG, there’s a whole lot of Over the Hill issues right there! Jeez, I can’t frigging believe it. 18 years ago, I was in the middle of my 24-hour labour, gearing up to squeeze out my little girl. Yup, he was supposed to be a girl! [...]

Posted October 14th, 2008 by justBcoz in Personal
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Yes, it’s taken me while for me to get back in the saddle, so to speak, but I’m looking at my life from all angles at the moment  and I’m thoroughly enjoying the way all the different fragments are combining in their shapes, sizes and colours and luminosity to form something that pleases me … [...]

Posted October 13th, 2008 by justBcoz in Personal
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Mmk, I’m not going to just assume that you all know the history between us, so let me fill you in a bit … Sir G (aka BiggestMullet) and I got together in early 2006, about 6 months after my X and I separated, during the very icky time that the divorce was being sorted [...]

Posted September 4th, 2008 by justBcoz in Personal
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I’ve just found out that another beautiful woman I know has been betrayed. They’ve been married for only 8 months but I could see this becoming a reality a year before their wedding. Perhaps I’m sensitive to this kind of potential devastation only because I have lived through it and learned from it. I have [...]