Posts Tagged ‘divorce’:

Posted August 19th, 2009 by justBcoz in Personal
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We sat alone in the bedroom on that fated early evening four years ago. It was the day after I’d seen the message come through on his cellphone: “I want to be with you.” That was the day that everything fell into place for me, the day the lights came on. He’d been talking about [...]

Posted January 19th, 2009 by justBcoz in Mumblings, Personal
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Today is the 2nd anniversary of my divorce. Two years. According to all the “experts”, I’m now supposed to be over it all. Apparently it takes 2 years from the date of legal finalization to recover from this kind of trauma. Is that true in my case? I have to admit that it’s probably not. [...]

Posted August 18th, 2008 by justBcoz in Personal
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Well, that was bloody awful! I’m back from the Family Session at the clinic and surprise, surprise … I’m a complete wreck. Eish … *Apparently* my feelings or opinions count for sweet fuckall. I sat there during the session while stuff was being said, some of it untrue, and when I was asked about how [...]

Posted August 16th, 2008 by justBcoz in Personal
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Mmk, so we have 2 more Family Sessions coming up at the clinic – one on Monday and one on Tuesday. In light of the fact that I really struggle to talk at these things and because I’ve failed to open my mouth when I’ve heard some bullshit being spoken, I have decided to go [...]

Posted July 27th, 2008 by justBcoz in Personal
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*yet another emo warning* Mmk, so this is a follow up to recent comments I made in this post, in reply to my Dad and B, wherein I mention the realization and acknowledgment of certain issues that I still need to work through and my need to start sharing more of those things with people [...]

Posted July 3rd, 2008 by justBcoz in Personal
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Today has been pretty crap for me and to top it off, I’ve just had a nasty, surreal experience. I linked through to something from a Twitter post and arrived at a site that looked interesting. It had a members’ area, so I went to go have a peak at who was involved in their [...]