Posts Tagged ‘divorce’:

Posted August 19th, 2009 by justBcoz in Personal
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We sat alone in the bedroom on that fated early evening four years ago. It was the day after I’d seen the message come through on his cellphone: “I want to be with you.” That was the day that everything fell into place for me, the day the lights came on. He’d been talking about [...]

Posted January 19th, 2009 by justBcoz in Mumblings, Personal

Today is the 2nd anniversary of my divorce. Two years. According to all the “experts”, I’m now supposed to be over it all. Apparently it takes 2 years from the date of legal finalization to recover from this kind of trauma. Is that true in my case? I have to admit that it’s probably not. [...]

Posted August 18th, 2008 by justBcoz in Personal
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Well, that was bloody awful! I’m back from the Family Session at the clinic and surprise, surprise … I’m a complete wreck. Eish … *Apparently* my feelings or opinions count for sweet fuckall. I sat there during the session while stuff was being said, some of it untrue, and when I was asked about how [...]

Posted August 16th, 2008 by justBcoz in Personal
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Mmk, so we have 2 more Family Sessions coming up at the clinic – one on Monday and one on Tuesday. In light of the fact that I really struggle to talk at these things and because I’ve failed to open my mouth when I’ve heard some bullshit being spoken, I have decided to go [...]

Posted July 27th, 2008 by justBcoz in Personal
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*yet another emo warning* Mmk, so this is a follow up to recent comments I made in this post, in reply to my Dad and B, wherein I mention the realization and acknowledgment of certain issues that I still need to work through and my need to start sharing more of those things with people [...]

Posted July 3rd, 2008 by justBcoz in Personal
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Today has been pretty crap for me and to top it off, I’ve just had a nasty, surreal experience. I linked through to something from a Twitter post and arrived at a site that looked interesting. It had a members’ area, so I went to go have a peak at who was involved in their [...]