Posted August 19th, 2009 by justBcoz in Personal
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We sat alone in the bedroom on that fated early evening four years ago. It was the day after I’d seen the message come through on his cellphone: “I want to be with you.” That was the day that everything fell into place for me, the day the lights came on. He’d been talking about [...]

Posted August 12th, 2009 by justBcoz in Kids, Personal
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After a rather revolting 10 days of being horribly sick, I’m back in the saddle. I won’t go into any gory details right now, I’m just grateful to be healthy again! But, sadly – very, very sadly – I missed Son#1′s matric dance last Saturday. I’m (still) absolutely heartbroken about this and pissed off that [...]

Posted July 3rd, 2009 by justBcoz in Personal
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Well, ok, so I’m just a tad late with getting my New Year Resolutions in place but better late than never, eh? Don’t judge me. Alrighty then … I have 6 months to get “stuff” done in 2009 so I suppose I’d better get a few ideas down so I can what’s what in this [...]

Posted June 22nd, 2009 by justBcoz in Personal
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Or at least, that’s how I feel … Hmm … I’m just kind of going through the motions in my life right now and not feeling very motivated to put in more energy or effort. Perhaps it’s just because I’m exhausted. I haven’t been sleeping much for well over a month now and I’m starting [...]

Posted June 18th, 2009 by justBcoz in Personal

“The only wrong decision is to do nothing.” I don’t know who said that. Someone a whole lot smarter than me, that’s for sure. But those words hit home and today, I acted on them. As difficult as it was, I know I’ve done the right thing. Because sooner or later, something has to give.

Posted June 8th, 2009 by justBcoz in Personal
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Words are powerful. Be careful how you use them … what comes out of your mouth has the ability to influence someone’s life and shape who they become. You’re useless When I returned empty handed after being sent to look for my step monster’s red handbag – the prequel to being locked in my room [...]