Comments on: The turning point http://www.justbcoz.co.za/headspace/2008/08/15/the-turning-point/ don't hold your breath Wed, 16 Nov 2011 07:11:50 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.4 By: Dad http://www.justbcoz.co.za/headspace/2008/08/15/the-turning-point/#comment-1026 Dad Tue, 19 Aug 2008 07:13:57 +0000 http://www.justbcoz.co.za/headspace/?p=418#comment-1026 @Nats Please keep writing!!! “resentment is like pissing your pants, no one else can feel it but you”. You make more sense about this whole situation than anyone else I have spoken to or read on this blog. I salute you for having the strength and courage to have gone through everything you did and also for sharing it all with us. @Nats Please keep writing!!!
“resentment is like pissing your pants, no one else can feel it but you”.
You make more sense about this whole situation than anyone else I have spoken to or read on this blog. I salute you for having the strength and courage to have gone through everything you did and also for sharing it all with us.

]]> By: justB[coz] http://www.justbcoz.co.za/headspace/2008/08/15/the-turning-point/#comment-1018 justB[coz] Tue, 19 Aug 2008 05:25:01 +0000 http://www.justbcoz.co.za/headspace/?p=418#comment-1018 HOLY FUCKBALLS!!! Nats, wow ... I don't know you like this! It's been years since I saw you and my god woman, you are a different person!!! I think I'm going to have to re-read this about 100x to take everything in ... Shit, I wish you weren't so far away, on the other side of the world. [ For those of you who don't know, Nats is my half sister - I met her when I was 18, she was 6. And yeah, we went through some shit a few years ago, pretty similar to what Son#1 is experiencing now. So this young lady has lived it and kicked it and totally turned her life around. I am crazy proud of her :D ] HOLY FUCKBALLS!!!

Nats, wow … I don’t know you like this! It’s been years since I saw you and my god woman, you are a different person!!!

I think I’m going to have to re-read this about 100x to take everything in …

Shit, I wish you weren’t so far away, on the other side of the world.

[ For those of you who don't know, Nats is my half sister - I met her when I was 18, she was 6. And yeah, we went through some shit a few years ago, pretty similar to what Son#1 is experiencing now. So this young lady has lived it and kicked it and totally turned her life around. I am crazy proud of her :D ]

]]> By: Nats http://www.justbcoz.co.za/headspace/2008/08/15/the-turning-point/#comment-1016 Nats Tue, 19 Aug 2008 05:14:26 +0000 http://www.justbcoz.co.za/headspace/?p=418#comment-1016 Hi sis... I've just begun to read into your life, "welcome to the fucking jungle" lol, i may be prematurely blurting things out here but reading things about Son #1 and how you feel like a jack ass cuz of your Piss brain X, i just want to remind you of something very briefly, and to let you know that I AM because you helped ME BE. it really touches home when i hear Son#1 going through his process, it strangely reminds me of myself around 4.5 years ago. And i went to the same Damn place too... i tell you one thing, It saved my life, my soul my heart and my mind. it fucking Sucked and i hated you en mom en Anyone else who wanted to know, i mean REALLY know what kind of bats are flying in my head.i did not want to be helped yet i wanted nothing more at the same time. Fucking counselor telling me i was NOT ok that i was the one that needed help..., WTF? and then telling me i had a Problem containing my casual using of 'feel me goods 'every hour or so. Turns out the MO FO was right! HA...imagine that, there i thought that you were all F-ing Nuts and you all needed the help, pff! tell me i cant Handle my life. ( i was homeless, penny less,mind less beauty less,) You were there for me , of course mom and my closer friends who Busted my Ass. You my sis, took me in and made sure i had the help i needed, even though i fought it...even for a while.. you loved me when i didnt know how to love myself, while you had your own crazy ass bats in your head. That takes a special kind of woman. you are that special kind of LAdy my sis! and if i have to hear ( and i haven't even gone through all these blogs yet) one more time of you bashing yourself being anything less than amazing, i will have to take that raft i came to the US with(which is an on going joke with my friends here cuz i came from africa) and row back to your door step and kick you up your cute little ASS! ;p the most healing i got was when i opened up about everything, honestly and fearlessly while there was another willing to listen not judge a word from my lips. and talking in the mirror does not count! we only judge ourselves worse than the ones that like us least. I'm grateful for your existence because today i kind of look like you and thats HOT. lol. i can function (most of the time) and most importantly...in this fucking jungle where bats are Crazy, i'm in a process called life and i'm not afraid anymore, i am conscious and no F-ing X in my life will tear my book apart... no matter what is said, i know the truth, You know the truth...no one needs to validate that but you. there is a great statement in NA. "resentment is like pissing your pants, no one else can feel it but you". allowing anyone to live in your head rent free is a costly expense. be selfish for a change and give someone the blessing on listening to your head honestly. Son#1 is beginning his process and he can freely talk to me at any point if he wishes to. and so can you. Now that my short comment has come to a close....;p we are all monkeys swinging on vines, sometimes we fall and shit ourselves, but we just need to throw it in anothers face and climb up the tree again to keep up with the flow of the universe. the H.O.W is Honesty open Mindedness and Willingness I love you! HUGS Hi sis… I’ve just begun to read into your life, “welcome to the fucking jungle” lol, i may be prematurely blurting things out here but reading things about Son #1 and how you feel like a jack ass cuz of your Piss brain X, i just want to remind you of something very briefly, and to let you know that I AM because you helped ME BE. it really touches home when i hear Son#1 going through his process, it strangely reminds me of myself around 4.5 years ago. And i went to the same Damn place too… i tell you one thing, It saved my life, my soul my heart and my mind. it fucking Sucked and i hated you en mom en Anyone else who wanted to know, i mean REALLY know what kind of bats are flying in my head.i did not want to be helped yet i wanted nothing more at the same time. Fucking counselor telling me i was NOT ok that i was the one that needed help…, WTF? and then telling me i had a Problem containing my casual using of ‘feel me goods ‘every hour or so. Turns out the MO FO was right! HA…imagine that, there i thought that you were all F-ing Nuts and you all needed the help, pff! tell me i cant Handle my life. ( i was homeless, penny less,mind less beauty less,) You were there for me , of course mom and my closer friends who Busted my Ass. You my sis, took me in and made sure i had the help i needed, even though i fought it…even for a while.. you loved me when i didnt know how to love myself, while you had your own crazy ass bats in your head. That takes a special kind of woman. you are that special kind of LAdy my sis! and if i have to hear ( and i haven’t even gone through all these blogs yet) one more time of you bashing yourself being anything less than amazing, i will have to take that raft i came to the US with(which is an on going joke with my friends here cuz i came from africa) and row back to your door step and kick you up your cute little ASS! ;p
the most healing i got was when i opened up about everything, honestly and fearlessly while there was another willing to listen not judge a word from my lips. and talking in the mirror does not count! we only judge ourselves worse than the ones that like us least.
I’m grateful for your existence because today i kind of look like you and thats HOT. lol. i can function (most of the time) and most importantly…in this fucking jungle where bats are Crazy, i’m in a process called life and i’m not afraid anymore, i am conscious and no F-ing X in my life will tear my book apart… no matter what is said, i know the truth, You know the truth…no one needs to validate that but you. there is a great statement in NA. “resentment is like pissing your pants, no one else can feel it but you”. allowing anyone to live in your head rent free is a costly expense. be selfish for a change and give someone the blessing on listening to your head honestly. Son#1 is beginning his process and he can freely talk to me at any point if he wishes to. and so can you.
Now that my short comment has come to a close….;p we are all monkeys swinging on vines, sometimes we fall and shit ourselves, but we just need to throw it in anothers face and climb up the tree again to keep up with the flow of the universe.
the H.O.W is Honesty open Mindedness and Willingness
I love you! HUGS

]]> By: justB[coz] http://www.justbcoz.co.za/headspace/2008/08/15/the-turning-point/#comment-982 justB[coz] Mon, 18 Aug 2008 05:40:25 +0000 http://www.justbcoz.co.za/headspace/?p=418#comment-982 Thanks Chris :-) Thanks Chris :-)

]]> By: Chris M http://www.justbcoz.co.za/headspace/2008/08/15/the-turning-point/#comment-974 Chris M Sun, 17 Aug 2008 22:57:17 +0000 http://www.justbcoz.co.za/headspace/?p=418#comment-974 I can relate to a lot of what you're going through. Just keep pushing and pushing, time and hard work will heal all of this! Thinking of you <3 I can relate to a lot of what you’re going through. Just keep pushing and pushing, time and hard work will heal all of this! Thinking of you <3

]]> By: justB[coz] http://www.justbcoz.co.za/headspace/2008/08/15/the-turning-point/#comment-950 justB[coz] Sat, 16 Aug 2008 11:15:30 +0000 http://www.justbcoz.co.za/headspace/?p=418#comment-950 BTW everyone - the first night, Friday, was completely uneventful and totally DRAMA FREE!!! *whips out the pom poms* YAAAY my boytjie!! :D BTW everyone – the first night, Friday, was completely uneventful and totally DRAMA FREE!!!

*whips out the pom poms* YAAAY my boytjie!!

:D

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