Posted August 4th, 2008 by justBcoz in Friends and Family, Personal, Rants []

To the person who’s just let me know how much I’ve hurt you because I can’t be there 100% for you when you are “going through the same thing” I went through – BACK OFF.

You are NOT going through the same thing – not by a LONG fucking shot! Stop kidding yourself.

So you’re hurt … sorry for you. Deal with it. I have enough of my own crap to work out. You dumping an extra load of guilt on top of that is just about the worst thing you could have done.

I’m too fucking pissed off to speak to you right now, so this will just have to do.

HOW DARE YOU!!!??

You say you were “there for me” for me when I needed you and now you’re upset because I can’t reciprocate?

WHAT THE FUCK???

Since when were there strings attached?

Have I not done enough for you?

Fuck. Fuck. Fuck.

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UPDATE

Mmk, so we’ve had it out – a highly-charged, hour-long shouting and sobbing session …

We got a lot of shit out. We’re both sorry for our respective parts in this fuckup. We both have a much better idea of what the other person does and doesn’t need.

We’re good.

justBcoz
  1. Ches says:

    Sooooooo….looks like I’ll break the ice!

    Where did it all start Ms Bcoz? :)

    Sorry, bad joke….hope you feel better! It’s good to vent these things…

  2. justB[coz] says:

    Hey Ches … yes, it WAS good to vent! I got EXACTLY how I was feeling out and now it’s over :-)

  3. Dad says:

    On Update – Whew!!! Much needed from both sides – no use sparring in the dark.

  4. justB[coz] says:

    *whew* indeed! One less thing to stress about now :-)

  5. Dad says:

    Just keep on working through the things / people that are causing you stress and it can only get better.